Gary ADMITS to Wanting to CHEAT WITH AMBER....IN FRONT OF KRISTINA! l Teen Mom OG S9 E4 Recap

Feb 17, 2021
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In this week's episode of Teen Mom: OG, we watched as:
Amber Portwood donned a 'slutty' army costume to wish her BROTHER a happy birthday
Gary Shirley ADMITTED to wanting to cheat with Amber Portood
Cheyenne Floyd told Cory Wharton she was dating Zach
Maci Bookout hides behind her son Bentley Edwards for another episode
Catelynn Lowell and Tyler Baltierra teach Nova about chores and earning money
Mackenzie McKee's father suffers a few mini heart attacks before surgery
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  • Gary needs a reality check he has a perfect partner already devoted to him why would he risk losing that for amber he is confusing caring and lust get a grip

    Louise GibbonLouise Gibbon22 hours ago
  • I really liked him but lately he is so weird now

    Jamie FrenchJamie FrenchDay ago
  • Girl, shut your mouth!!!

    Danielle VanEttenDanielle VanEtten2 days ago
  • It kind of sounded to me like he meant he didnt want amber close when him and amber fight. She is scary was his point, thats why he has a soft wife now because she doesnt fight

    rocklyn quarrierocklyn quarrie3 days ago
  • I don’t get why they planned two bday parties in the first place why would they do it again at the grandparents house just two days later i get doing it again for Bentley to be there but it sounds like they already had two parties planned out

    Shelly BShelly B4 days ago
  • Gary is polyamorous lol 😂

    Cookie MonsterCookie Monster4 days ago
  • Did anyone else get beyond mad when amber said that her daughter better call her before just coming over?.. um excuse me miss, but my kids can come into my bedroom, even in the bathroom with me anytime of day if they want to be near me without asking first. That’s so disgusting to me.

    Cat CraigCat Craig4 days ago
  • Cheyenne was on the fence with Taylor because of Taylors racist past, I would be iffy too if a potential step mom of my black child had a racist past.

    Sasha RossSasha Ross4 days ago
  • I want. Gary and. Amber back. Togther.

    Debra MuseDebra Muse5 days ago
  • Do you have kids? Cuz you certainly have a lot of opinions on how others choose to raise their kids, but if you aren't a parent, your opinions aren't really valid. It's hard to form an opinion if you've never been in that position yourself.

    Linds ThomasLinds Thomas6 days ago
  • Ryan never wanted a relationship with Bentley I feel sorry for him I feel like it's only been push because of Ryan parents

    Katie lolKatie lol6 days ago
  • Grace you look absolutely beautiful and glowing😍😍😍 I could watch/listen to you everyday!

    Patience RushPatience Rush6 days ago
  • Love your content and my gosh your hair tho!😍⚡️⚡️👑

    NashNash6 days ago
  • My 6 year old does chores and I don’t give her an allowance. It’s important for children to learn responsibility and to do chores for no money. It’s not going to benefit Amber to live on Gary and Kristinas property. It’s going to cause problems for them. I don’t think 🤔 Maci is putting Bentley up to anything. Ryan and his family just can’t help but blame Maci rather than take responsibility for their mistakes.

    Danielle SjervenDanielle Sjerven8 days ago
  • Gary triangulates. I this hes a narcisist

    beela rehmanbeela rehman8 days ago
  • Caitlyn does seem healthier and happier.

    Boil cornBoil corn8 days ago
  • I know everyone parents differently, but I don't understand why people think offering an allowance teaches responsibility. When you offer an allowance you are giving them a choice ex: if you take out the trash you will get X amount $ So if that child chooses not to do it you can't get upset because you made it a choice to begin with. My children are expected to do their chores and if not there are consequences. Offering money to do chores is not a life lesson and does not teach work ethics because it's unrealistic. If it does then I'm owed a lot of money. If my children want to earn money I encourage them to think of ways to earn it. My kids will pull weeds from the neighbors front yards, wash cars, they used to make and sell slime or bracelets, I also have something called money makers which are things outside the expected they can choose to help me with. My 13 year old sells snacks to the neighborhood kids and is saving up money to start up a rug business. They also have 3 piggy banks and whatever money they have needs to be distributed into each bank. Spend, Save, and Donate. Teaches them it's okay to spend your money on things you want, but you should also have a savings. Donate because you should always give back. With the Donate money they can choose to donate to a cause of their choice. Most years all three of my kids like to adopt a family for the holidays and get them gifts and a gift card for dinner. Also they don't have to split the money evenly. I leave it up to them on how they want to split it.

    Anntesha ChestertonAnntesha Chesterton8 days ago
  • Bentley has zero obligations to rhines kids.

    Shop.with. SarahShop.with. Sarah9 days ago
  • "I'm a softy, I don't like confrontation" Excuse me? Don't you have kids? Once I had kids I found out confrontation is inevitable. If you want to be respected you can't be afraid to SPEAK.

    Samantha MaeSamantha Mae9 days ago
  • Ok...Giving Nova money for doing chores?? 😕 I get that this is like, a common thing these days... But, I do not agree. I never got PAID to help out with house chores! Oh hell no. I was given age appropriate chores, & I did them. Period. I think its great that they are realizing that their daughter is becoming.. um ..a brat, if you will.. & that they want her to learn to appreciate things & not *expect* to be given whatever she wants. That being said, PAYING her to do her little chores is *not* the way imo. At the end of the day, she will still be having her hand out... & money will be put in it. 🤷🏼‍♀

    *uNicOrNnzRaMo0d**uNicOrNnzRaMo0d*10 days ago
  • Of course they are blaming Maci

    L CL C11 days ago
  • If Amber moves out there Gary’s marriage will be over

    L CL C11 days ago
  • Gary is stupid if he throws his marriage away for Amber

    L CL C11 days ago
  • I don't find it surprising Bentley is asking if Ryan's going to be there. Ryan surely missed a few of his birthdays.

    nobleinthoughtnobleinthought11 days ago
  • I can see the resentment that Bentley has for his father. It’s sad that Ryan and Mac can’t acknowledge his feelings and still choose to blame Maci for their behavior when Bentley is around them. Not once do you see Maci manipulating Bentley on her feelings about Ryan. She keep it to herself and never pushed he frustrations on the him, I love how great of a mother she is.

    SikuSiku11 days ago
  • Gary has no idea what love is and he has always been about whatever is convenient for him at the moment and my heart breaks for Kristina,she is such a good person and Ryan needs to focus on his son and leave the dope alone. I support Maci 100%.

    Wendy FugateWendy Fugate11 days ago
  • A sister wives date😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    Ashley BishopAshley Bishop12 days ago
  • It’s not teen mom... it’s more like « dysfonctionnial families that are paid to stay toxic » all i watch now is grace’s recaps lol . Rather send grace money than Psycho Amber 😄

    Alex SimAlex Sim12 days ago
  • I feel lik grace comes at all of them and points out every single flaw that each and every1 of them have as if she has tha best life. Or has so many kids that she knows whats best for everyone elses. Kinda disliking this channel.

    Lauren GottLauren Gott12 days ago
  • Amber and Gary r stupid!!! Kristina is the only one that has cooth-if u don't have it you look like trash AMBER!!!!! You are jealous of Kristina cause she is a good person. Amber has never been a mother to either of her kids!!!!

    Cathy BrownCathy Brown12 days ago
  • Jen didn't mix up the dates. She knew exactly when the party was at her house & whem the party was at Ryan's house. Maci is just doing what's best for her son, considering the situation. Why doesn't anyone put the blame on Ryan. He's the issue n it seems like he bullies Bentley a little.

    Jill HockadayJill Hockaday12 days ago
  • I don’t believe Gary hit on amber without her not wanting it. Amber is strong willed and doesn’t put up with shit.. if he was harassing her like she claims I think after one time she’d put an end to it. It’s not like she puts up with shit to see her daughter.. she doesn’t even visit her. I personally think Gary hit on amber and she fed into it. I think she likes the attention. I think both are guilty

    Ashleigh GibsonAshleigh Gibson12 days ago
  • Amber’s brother has always given her good advice what have you been watching he seems to be the only one that can calm her down and she listens to him

    The jett lifeThe jett life12 days ago
  • Gary was and always will be in love with amber kristina was a back up and she got pregnant on purpose I believe 🤣 he was expecting that

    The jett lifeThe jett life12 days ago
  • Ewww! “Happy my wife is so soft now,”?! That’s creepy and controlling!!! Wtf?

    Jesi Harper CardosaJesi Harper Cardosa12 days ago
  • Hey I love your videos do a great job breaking it down..I watch the show and get confused with all the different things going on in each family..So thank you help me get things I don't really get or sometimes missed...Have a great day and stay safe.

    Kirk BlanchardKirk Blanchard13 days ago
  • All cait and tyler are doing is teaching that kid about needing instant gratification, which SO many children and adults struggle with already. Great job. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    Kassidy HKassidy H13 days ago
  • I coulda swore he was talking abt fighting w amber & her living right there would make things awkward

    Makayla SueMakayla Sue13 days ago
  • I genuinely feel bad for Bentley because like I know what it’s like not to have your dad there and for your dad to choose drugs or themselves over you and it fucking sucks it makes you feel so worthless and like you are not worth being loved I could get why he wouldn’t want his dad or McKenzie be at his brothers birthday because honestly it probably makes him so mad that his father is attending Jagger‘s birthday and not any of his like that would make me so pissed if I was in that position my dad only ever attended nine of my birthday parties because he left when I was nine years old So I get it I really do

    Meredith JemolaMeredith Jemola13 days ago
  • Like I believe Amber like I think she’s a shitty human being but I believe her because Gary’s always givin me weird vibes like what kind of adult dates and impregnates a like 17-year-old

    Meredith JemolaMeredith Jemola13 days ago
  • lol Ray Charles

    Annmarie OconnellAnnmarie Oconnell13 days ago
  • If those grandparents love Bentley then they need go get their head out of their ass and think of him first. Obviously, their son is the problem

    FullyPilarFullyPilar13 days ago
  • The lack of punctuation on Nova’s chore chart really bugged me. I’m sorry but they are so uneducated it’s very cringey

    d bd b13 days ago
  • I die every time they use that sloth animation for Amber at the end of her segments 😂💀 MTV is so shady

    d bd b13 days ago
    • lol i know! and they put it in the fatigues last week

      Annmarie OconnellAnnmarie Oconnell13 days ago
  • Ryan is a loser his parents are delusional and maci is a great mom!!! Taylor is more of a dad than ryan ever was!! Amber is one of the worst moms on teen mom first farrah but at least she has her kid.

    John HartJohn Hart13 days ago

    John HartJohn Hart13 days ago
  • what makes gary think that amber would even give him any play? men always think women will run when they call. i don’t think amber is interested

    Ash SmithAsh Smith13 days ago
  • Thanks for the summary !

    Tm LennTm Lenn13 days ago
  • Sorry but idont agree with paying your kids to c lean up a house where they live FOR FREE!...NO!! WAY!! And then to say to the kid can pick and choose the ones you want to do...? What thats not helping them bc you have a real job the job will not let you pick and choose what parts you want to do😐😑🤪

    mj Brownleemj Brownlee14 days ago
  • Grace Gary was talking about fighting with Amber not his wife.. U Definitely misunderstood , and catelyn and Taylor introduced making money to nova just fine, leaving lots of room for adjustment as she grows and understands. Be nice grace stay classy

    bonita tbonita t14 days ago
  • Love your hair!

    The Robinson FamilyThe Robinson Family14 days ago
  • I'm shocked no one else has questioned if Amber was on something in the scene when she facetimed her brother 👀 Hope Im wrong..

    Janelle 09Janelle 0914 days ago
  • Nova is the next Sophia.

    N CN C14 days ago
  • Ryan looks pickled. Sober or not. Pickled.

    N CN C14 days ago
  • Ok but can we address how beautiful Grace looks, from her hair to her earrings, nice color lipstick and gorgeous dress

    it was a tuesdayit was a tuesday14 days ago
  • Maci and that ear ring give me the creeps

    Kelly JacksonKelly Jackson14 days ago
  • Maci and Ryan with his Trump hat are both boring

    Kelly JacksonKelly Jackson14 days ago
  • I can’t even every week with amber with her mask in the car and outdoors 😂🤣💀 and honestly I just don’t like her as a person. Such a crap mom. Poor Leah. And poor Kristina honestly!!! She tolerates too much !

    Melissa O'ConnorMelissa O'Connor14 days ago

    Camille WilliamsCamille Williams14 days ago
  • He was talking about him and Amber fighting, and having Amber living right next to him, after a fight with Amber, not Kristina

    Amanda BoyensAmanda Boyens15 days ago
  • Bentleys grandmother did not mix up the parties. They wanted him at aryans house with the cameras to make it look like Ryan is an involved father.

    Susan RivaitSusan Rivait15 days ago
  • Love your shirt, and makeup! You're just GLOWING ❤️

    Amanda BoyensAmanda Boyens15 days ago
  • Honestly you can see the love he still got for her

    Annabella LopezAnnabella Lopez15 days ago
  • I don't believe Bentley's grandmother heard wrong because at the being of the show we see Makenzie telling her the party would be at her and Ryan's house. It looks like Meme just lied. And Cheyenne feeling the way she do is legitimate, because Cory had no reason to have a problem with Zach from the beginning. Cory always treats Cheyenne as if he knows what's best for Ryder more the Cheyenne does. Cory wants to do whatever he wants to do, but police everything Cheyenne does. Cory is arrogant.

    J.Renee ThompsonJ.Renee Thompson15 days ago
  • It's always the ones you never wanna see that wanna do it. 🙄😑

    Lindsey BailesLindsey Bailes15 days ago
  • You hair looks INCREDIBLE!

    From TheFostersFrom TheFosters15 days ago
  • Jagger? 🤭 That's a horrible name

    L.A DODG3RL.A DODG3R15 days ago
  • Gary and Amber 🤮

    L.A DODG3RL.A DODG3R15 days ago
  • Amber loves nobody lol she called Andrew a "fat ugly ass" 🤣

    L.A DODG3RL.A DODG3R15 days ago
  • With all due respect. Please don’t encourage people ESPECIALLY in LA to have gatherings just for a birthday. I spent my birthday and all holidays alone. Not because I wanted to. I think you may be in a France I do understand that covid may look very different for you as while living in Korea it as well was different!! I do get it but please do not try to make gatherings once again ESPECIALLY IN LA a thing that is okay we are in a PANDEMIC FOR ALMOST A YEAR NOW BC PEOPLE TRYING TO JUSTIFY THESE THINGS. Love your videos but seriously please don’t condone or encourage this at this time given what we are going through //:

    Shelby GeeShelby Gee15 days ago
  • I loveeee how you pass judgment on how to raise a child. You must be the best mother out there...

    elizabethelizabeth15 days ago
  • I'm not a huge fan of amber and Gary but I really believe Gary's words are being misconstrued. He was saying "if we fought and something went down." The next thing he says is "I still have nightmares" he's talking about amber being violent towards him. And if him and amber fought and then she got violent it wouldn't be good for her to live on the same property. Even amber says "we fight all the time, it's fine".

    Sammy ForbesSammy Forbes15 days ago
  • Can we all just agree Amber was high high af. ☁

    Amy WarrenAmy Warren15 days ago
  • Ughhh. He's revollllting! 🤮

    Ally KuitAlly Kuit15 days ago
  • I don't even watch the show but I did enjoy hearing your recap of it! Great job sis🙌🏾🙌🏾

    Shana MShana M15 days ago
  • Maybe it’s just me. But I personally feel them giving nova money for doing her chores is okay. Y’all like to nickpick at so much shit🤷🏾‍♀️

    Hinata SavageTMHinata SavageTM15 days ago
  • I think kristina is better looking if she would loose little bit of weight she will look better

    Vanessa 562Vanessa 56215 days ago
  • You are such a talented speaker Grace, I skip episodes and just watch your recaps! You need a podcast stat

    Samantha GoodmanSamantha Goodman15 days ago
  • Did anyone else think Amber looked like she was on something when she was talking to Gary & Kristina @ the restaurant ? Her words were slurred, she was speaking slowly like she was losing her train of thought & it looked like she couldn’t keep her eyes open.

    Shannon CerdaShannon Cerda15 days ago
  • I love that Cheyenne is so much into taking caution with this and how she is with Ryder and I love her how she had everybody tested before her sister's party and I love how Ryder ratted her out about Zach

    Donna JohnsonDonna Johnson15 days ago
  • Not that I like him but Ryan is a big part of Maci's storyline just like all the dad's are a big part of these teen mom storyline.

    Hope EasonHope Eason15 days ago
  • Kristena do you need a divorce lawyer ??

    niamh marieniamh marie15 days ago
  • I do think it's good Tyler and cate are trying to make Nova earn things rather then just giving it to her though.

    DemenTED BundyDemenTED Bundy15 days ago
  • It's a gravestone...not a tombstone. Lol...just sayin'. Love you Grace!

    Victoria of the Victoria Victoria'sVictoria of the Victoria Victoria's15 days ago
  • Bentley has been very clear on what his issues are concerning Ryan. It's a damn shame the only people listening are his mother & step father who hear him clearly! I want to shake Jen! And Larry, oh Larry... I'd kinda like to whoop him! Cate & Ty chores are part of a structured life that you two can't seem to mimic. Gary... Seriously!?

    Freddie LindFreddie Lind15 days ago
    • Larry and jen never raised ryan well. I dont think they are bad parents but they made wrong desissions. Ryan walkes over them, theve got nothing to say. They always accept ryans faults and blaming macy for it, once they tell him what they really think ryan shut his parents up and you can see their scared. Its sad.

      family rissewijckfamily rissewijck14 days ago
  • Gary think he got it like that 😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹 I’m confused what’s the point in leaving each other (babymomma) If u just guna cheat with them 10 years later 😹😹🙀 makes no sense

  • Nova is to young to think long-term for saving. Its good to introduce the idea now with just a toy, when they succeed then move on to longer goals. Did it for a living a long time...ADULTS CANT THINK LONG-TERM FINANCIALLY 🤣🤣🤣 bless the babies Lord 🤣🤣🤣

    Mz CheeMz Chee15 days ago
  • I personally don't believe Miami Jen made a "boo boo" on where the party was. Just the way his parents try to blame Maci for everything and act like their son is some poor victim, it makes me think they'd go to any lengths to get what they want. I used to really like them, but I don't care for them at all anymore.

    Kourtney MeltonKourtney Melton15 days ago
  • Just a storyline...

    nancyderksnancyderks15 days ago
  • I can’t even watch this show anymore. Glad that Amber sees the value in mobile homes and isn’t being too prideful. Those things are nice!

    Love is HereLove is Here15 days ago
  • Ryan need to go to rehab for good and get counselor for good or have a life coach that will help him

    Cionna ICionna I15 days ago
  • Wait, who is Shyanne?! I stopped watching this show years ago because I don't have cable anymore.

    KimberlyKimberly15 days ago
  • I've watched the clip several times and even turned captions on and that was not at all what Gary said. He was literally saying that he didn't feel it would be a good idea for Amber to live on the property in case they (meaning he and Amber) fought and they wouldn't have that seperation. Then he proceeded to say he still had nightmares (about him and Amber's fights) which is why he has a wife who is soft and doesn't like confrontation. This was not a sleazy commentary about cheating on his wife with Amber. I don't know if Amber's claims of Gary's inappropriate behavior are true but I certainly question the validity of them given how comfortable she seems to be around him. Either it was a mutual situation or it never happened but I think it's very unfair to report inaccuracies that are damaging to someone's reputation.

    Flamingo LadyFlamingo Lady15 days ago
  • Honestly when are Larry and Jen going to realise that Bentley is fully aware of what’s going on with Ryan and how he has treated him in the past! The poor darling feels like he’s old enough to make his own decisions on with who and where he SAFELY spends his time. Blaming Maci for alienation is an absolute joke! ❤️

    Tash O’DonnellTash O’Donnell16 days ago
    • @family rissewijck I couldn’t agree more! ❤️

      Tash O’DonnellTash O’Donnell14 days ago
    • So many people blame macy. In the beginning i was wondering if macy could let the past go. But she changed in my eyes in a good way. She looks supportive with bentley and it seems to me she let bentley choose what he want. But larry and jen have to realise their son isnt in a healthy place and needs help. He aint clean trust me, and hes a horrible dad! I cant blame macy for the things she did. She wanted to do the best for bentley even if it wasnt always a choice we all would make. Shes a great mom and always trying to involve ryan but he mess up everytime. But at the end of the day, i think ryan never had what he needed from his parents. They allowed everything thats how it seems to me. Always putting ryan first even when they know he made bad mistakes. As a parent you need to step up, i think they never did that with ryan. He walks just over them.

      family rissewijckfamily rissewijck14 days ago
  • Completely off topic but I’m loving this look you are serving 😍😍

    Dose of JadeDose of Jade16 days ago
  • Leah is not a parent, she has no business trying to raise anyone.

    DnedmondsonDnedmondson16 days ago
  • Kristina needs to let this dude go. She looks so sad puppy dog all the time. Gary is creepy af! Why is it all these old, overweight, balding guys have not only one woman/wife, but also have a side chick or two as well. Meanwhile I'm over here single af.. but I do like my freedom and prefer not to be cheated on soo lol

    Beth SeidelBeth Seidel16 days ago
  • Ryan should get his stuff together. At least Bentley has Tyler and Maci.

    Mimi GrabnerMimi Grabner16 days ago
  • Amber is also taking care of her self. Gary should be faithful to his wife. But yes it's like a Sister Wifes.

    Mimi GrabnerMimi Grabner16 days ago
  • Bentley doesn’t need to be on this show anymore! It’s time for him to live his life off camera....the filming is adding to the issues!! Seems like nobody can see this!!

    Brando ChicagoBrando Chicago16 days ago